Happy New Year! What are you grateful for?

Happy New Year!!!
As 2017 comes to a close and the newness of 2018 settles upon us, I can’t help but think about gratitude. I have so much to be grateful for. I don’t always see this, but, if I choose, it is always there, available for me to be aware of and bask in the glory of my gratitude.

I was reminded of this recently when talking with a friend on a very rainy, gray day here in Vancouver. She said, “Wow, it’s raining so hard today.” The next words out of my mouth were going to be, “I know! Isn’t it awful, I hate these days.” However, before I could get those words out of my mouth, she said, “It’s great! My car was so dirty and now it’s clean!”Yea, right, that’s just what I was thinking….NOT!!

It is so easy for me to fall into the depths of negativity and self-pity. Sometimes it feels like it’s my “comfort zone” since I spent so much of my life there. I never knew that was what I was doing or even that I had any other choice. Life just seemed hard, and it was definitely hard on me, or so I thought. The idea never occurred to me that I was completely responsible for how I saw things and whether life was “hard on me.” This doesn’t mean that struggles wouldn’t appear in my life—after all, that is life. What it means though, is that I get to choose how I view things and, therefore, I get to choose to believe life is “hard” or that life at times is “beautifully challenging.”

I have spent a lot of time with my niece (yes, the one and only Georgia, who, as I am sure you have noticed, I love to squeak into any newsletter that I possibly can) and my other sister’s two dogs in the last month. Wow! Talk about gratitude and staying in the moment; young children and animals are an amazing reminder of how this can be done. They have all taught me some beautiful lessons in the last couple of weeks.

Georgia and I were walking to the park with the dogs and I said, “Georgia I am feeling a bit sad because this is the last time I am going to see you before I go back to Florida for a couple of months.” She was quiet for a minute and I could see her little mind racing, and then, she looked at me with a bit of a furrowed brow, raised her hands with palms facing upward and said, “But we’re here together now”! From the mouths of babes; what brilliance this beautiful little 4-year-old human being had just shared with me. Amanda, be grateful for what is happening NOW!!

I think the key for me to remember is that I always have a choice everyday in how I view each situation that comes my way. So I ask myself—and each of you—to be cognizant of the fact that when our thoughts say, “Life is Hard” our next thought can be, “Life is beautiful and I am grateful for this situation because I know, if I choose to, I can grow and learn from it.”

Today is January 3rd  and I am reminded of the many events of 2017 and am in awe of what I have to be grateful for. There are so many miracles in my life. My top 10 gratitudes for 2017 are:

  1. Freedom from the bondage of food for another 365 days.
  2. The ability of my body to physically re-build its way back to health and strength after years of abuse.
  3. My powerful, strong, smart, beautiful niece Georgia and the role I get to play in her life because of abstinence and recovery.
  4. That I have a career which allows me to support others who are travelling the same path as me in recovery from the brutal disease of food addiction, and, therefore, get to witness on a daily basis the strength, tenacity and hope of human beings.
  5. The country and city I call home, Vancouver, Canada, for its natural beauty, diversity and the freedoms it allows me.
  6. All the long walks I have taken in the stunning forests in Vancouveor or along the gorgeous beaches in Florida.
  7. The summer vacation I took with my Mom where I showed up as a responsible, respectful adult who had the ability to get outside of herself and truly “see” my Mom for all her amazingness.
  8. For all the people in recovery who walk this path with me and show me that recovery is possible one day at a time.
  9. For my family who stuck with me through active addiction and is now allowing me the opportunity to show up differently, one day at a time, and slowly gain back their trust.
  10. For my daily growing relationship with my higher power who, when I let go of control, truly guides me to a life beyond my wildest dreams.

Wow! I have so many more gratitudes, but this will just have to do for now! I would love to hear your gratitudes. Visit us on Facebook  (https://www.facebook.com/ACORNFoodAddiction/) and let me know your top 10 gratitudes for 2017.

Wishing you an abstinent, peaceful and grateful 2018,

Amanda

P.S.  Don’t miss out on ACORN’s month of recovery starting January 19.  I can’t think of a better way to start a New Year than with an abundance of RECOVERY!!

Also keep your eyes open for information on upcoming events in Vancouver happening in March.


Primary Intensive

When:      Friday, Jan 19 to Wednesday, Jan 24 (starts Fri at 7 pm and ends Wed at 2 pm) and/or Tuesday, Feb 6 to Sunday, Feb 11 (starts Tues at 7 pm and ends Sun at 2 pm).

Where:     Sugar Free Place, Bradenton Florida

Cost:         $2,175 USD includes program, lodging and all meals ($1,925 for those who have previously attended an ACORN Primary Intensive)

What:        ACORN’s “powerful” and “life-changing” 5-day program

Join Phil and Amanda for ACORN’s signature program, The Primary Intensive. This 5-day structured residential program includes practice using a food plan, education about the disease, process groups, challenging denial, structured activities, individual reading and writing assignments, and resources for support. Open to those new to food addiction recovery and to those who want to deepen their recovery in an abstinent environment.

Space is limited to 10 participants!

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Living in Recovery

When:       Saturday, Jan 27 to Wednesday, Jan 31

Where:      Sugar Free Place, Bradenton Florida

Cost:         $1,225 USD includes program and lodging

What:        A 5-day program supporting participants to strengthen their recovery in a supportive and abstinent environment

The goal of the “Living in Recovery Workshop” is to enable participants to take home what they practice during their stay. The workshop is less structured than the ACORN Primary Intensive and provides two process groups each day for attendees to address their individual recovery issues and attend relevant educational lectures.

Participants will stay in a residential home; prepare their own meals following their individual, abstinence-based food plans; participate in Twelve Step meetings; and have a daily practice of reading and writing.

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Alumni Retreat: Relapse Prevention Focus

Come for a Relapse Prevention weekend and enjoy R&R, Recharge and Recovery.

When:       Friday, Feb 2 to Sunday, Feb 4
(starts Fri at 6 pm and ends Sun at 3 pm)

Where:      Sugar Free Place, Bradenton Florida

Cost:         $550 USD includes program, lodging and all meals

What:        An event for ACORN alumni only that focuses on RELAPSE PREVENTION!

Join Phil and Amanda for an amazing weekend as we delve into this vital aspect of ongoing recovery.  Explore the whys, the hows and, most importantly, the “how nots!!”  The Relapse Prevention weekend is an eye-opening andlifesaving event, providing participants the tools to actually “STOP” a relapse process in its early stages—meaning before they pick up the food!  I believe that all of us in recovery can benefit from this work.  One recent participant stated,“This relapse work was the missing piece for me.”

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